I can say that there is a huge difference between guys in the west and the asian. This roots basically from cultural differences and environment.
I am an Asian with Spanish descendant and i was raised in Philippines, which you might probably thinking that i don’t look like one. Just like what they say if you can’t tell whether she’s an asian or latina, she’s probably a filipino. Anyways, i will not be writing about myself rather the difference between having white and asian boyfriend. I will disclaim that these are purely based on my personal experience. I had an asian boyfriend back in college but after that i dont know what happened it seems like i attract white guys a lot. But right now i have a white boyfriend and he’s the longest relationship i have ever had. I must say cultural difference between us has never been a problem throughout our relationship because we both talk about it before we even became together and to my surprise he tried his best everyday to be that guy i expect him to be which i never asked him to.
Going back to the subject, below are the most common differences that i have noticed.
ASIAN: They love texting you with long messages.
WHITE: They don’t text a lot unless you text them first. Don’t expect long messages. But that doesn’t mean they don’t love you, so don’t get hysterical.
2. SAYING I LOVE YOU IN PERSON
ASIAN: They don’t say that a lot in person. They are kinda shy to say what they feel especially face to face.
WHITE: Expect to hear it a lot. They love saying it which is so romantic, though they tend to overuse, we don’t really care. Hearing it makes us feel loved.
ASIAN: They don’t complain much with foods you wanna eat or place you want to go. Whatever you want, even if they are not into it. Sure you are the boss.
WHITE: They don’t mind telling you they don’t like it. Which is good i think ‘coz you can’t be right all the time.
4. PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION
ASIAN: They don’t like the idea of PDA.
WHITE: They don’t mind.
5. HOW YOU WEAR
ASIAN: They don’t like it when you wear revealing/provoking clothes.
WHITE: They don’t mind.
6. TALKING TO THEIR GUY FRIENDS
ASIAN: They are jealous guys, don’t like it when you get too close to his guy friends.
WHITE: They are cool with it.
7. SOCIAL MEDIA
ASIAN: They don’t mind posting cheesy stuff on your facebook wall.
WHITE: Don’t expect them to write you long anniversary message thing on your facebook wall.
ASIAN: They don’t wanna mess up with you as much as possible.
WHITE: They love pulling stuff to annoy you.
ASIAN: Will not let you sleep mad.
WHITE: Tells you to just sleep and talk about it when she’s chill.
10. HOW THEY LOOK
ASIAN: They always wanna impress you by dressing up and always looking good.
WHITE: They don’t give a fuck on how they look. They just wanna be who they are and what they are. And you need to love it.
ASIAN: They are not comfortable walking around at home or room naked when you’re around. They are shy guys.
WHITE: They don’t mind showing off their body when you two are together at home. They feel comfortable that way.
12. HANGING OUT WITH GIRL FRIENDS
ASIAN: When you’re out with friends without him, they want to know the details especially if there will be guys etc.
WHITE: “FINALLY, She’s out with friends” hahaha that’s probably the first thing that comes to their mind. They don’t ask alot of question.
13. WHEN YOU SAID YOU’RE BUSY
ASIAN: They think they have done something wrong.
WHITE: They take it literally. Doesn’t bother them.
ASIAN: They don’t often compliment you in person like if you dress well etc. Like i said they are not vocal to what they feel. But when texting, they talk alot.
WHITE: They are so vocal with everything, they will say out loud that you look gorgeous etc. That’s a plus.
Like i said all i mentioned are based from my personal experience. It may be completely different from yours. Well i hope this might give you somehow idea if you are currently torn between dating an asian or white guy. Whatever you choose i’m pretty sure you will both compliment each other, it’ s all about love, respect and trust whatever race he may come.